February 5, 2010
- Time to go.
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I just read the letter from Christin from Mittenwald, and wanted to share my story, too.
I am sitting on my couch heartbroken. Can’t stop crying.
By accident, I found out my fiancé has been using an escort service to hire prostitutes. I’m not sure if I’m even using the right words, but maybe you can get the picture.
As an excuse ( he’s used more than once), my boyfriend said he did it only because I don’t want to have sex until after we got married.
He always says “get over it, it’s just a release, it means nothing to men”.
I was trying to put all this behind us. But then I found he’s been on porn sites.
He’s on a business trip for the next three days. I’m packing my bags. When he gets back there will be nothing left behind.
I was starting to plan our wedding! I’m scared.
Do you think I’m doing the right thing?
Heartbroken
Dear Heartbroken:
There was “nothing” to stay for – and you’re leaving “nothing” behind.
You were planning your wedding. Most certainly you would have found yourself planning a divorce.
Have youself a good cry. Then dust yourself off, stand real tall, take a deep new breath, leave, and never look back.
Say a heartfelt prayer of Thanks. Thank GOD EVERYDAY.
Just yonder, with your name on his dance card, there is a special man who will cherish and honor the values you stand for.
You’re worth it.
I wish you the very best.
Mrs. Figgins
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